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Sunday, July 20, 2008

DoN't MaRry iF........

1. DON'T MARRY, IF BECAUSE OF WEALTH
Life without love is useless. Wealth and property can come and go all the times. A momentary "LOVE" can come anytime, but 'TRUE LOVE" can not buy by any wealth or money.
2. DON'T MARRY, IF BECAUSE OF ANY LOVE
Feel interested, sympathy, and appraise are always interpreted as LOVE. But, actually it is not a LOVE. That kind of LOVE can be changed anytime by wealth, look, and any other circumstances. It will not last. "LOVE" must be tested in sorrow and happines. "TRUE LOVE" will endure in any condition.
3. Don't MARRY, IF BECAUSE OF FORM
Look beautiful is great, but it can be faded when you're getting older. Inner beauty is more important than your appeareance.

4. Don't MARRY, IF BECAUSE OF PITIES
Feel pity and sympathy is good and a must, but, it may not become a reason to marry someone. That feeling will be gone as the time by, but "LOVE" won't. Marry because of LOVE not a pity.

5. Don't MARRY, IF BECAUSE OF SEX
Yes, sex is important in marriage, but it may not be your reason of marry someone too. Sex is a part of marriage. People who only think about sex satisfaction will be dissaponted and trapped by adversity by themselves someday and won't be happy.

6. Don't MARRY, IF BECAUSE OF FAMILY CONSTRAINT
A child must devotes to family. But, may not be given up in marry someone if you think you're right. Pray and explain to your parent, don't give up. It is your life.

7. Don't MARRY, IF BECAUSE OF AGE PRESSURE
If age has became your problem, and your friends have already coupled, people will start to worry about his/her self, especially women. Many people, finally get married just to having their own couple. Please, don't do it. You're hurting yourself and your spouse. Just be patient dan convinced yourself that GOD has provided the best for you. Wait for your moment.
8. Don't MARRY, IF BECAUSE OF RECOMPENSATION
Someone who has did a kindness must be reciprocated, but don't be with nuptials.
One thing that you have to remember, and the most important thing is DON'T MARRY without UNDERSTANDING and PREPARATION of the real life. MARRY because of GOD's plan. It will be better for you to wait, intstead of in hurry and finally you get suffered, if it's not confirmed by GOD. GOD has already created us in coupled. Without GOD's, it's very impossible that people can be together as one!

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